Possibly the biggest secret – the open secret – is the fact men and women are incredibly different, in particular when it comes to what they find “hot” or a “turn on”… both in and out of the bedroom.
When men think harm to something “hot” for a female, it usually involves some kind of maneuver to be performed between her legs.
However that’s not where the lady wants you to be. Not yet anyway. Will be certainly a lot of work to be achieved, – in other places on her body, that can get her morfingere ready than immediately putting and prodding between the woman legs.
You could have obtained her naked. (If you haven’t yet, perhaps one of our ‘seduction secrets’ reports may be of use for you. ) The lady could even be able to see the desire and excitement in your sight.
And yet, that is not enough to get her to let go fully, so she really can enjoy herself the way she’d like to.
Nevertheless, not to worry. Together with the tips and techniques revealed below, straight from real girls that are excited to “help one to help her, ” it will be possible to give her amazing pleasure… and stand apart, from the rest of the men from her earlier.
Let these women show you exactly where most men make a mistake, and what they most often overlook… so that you can really get her “red hot” and ready to explode with ecstasy…
‘Finger-Lickin’ Very good
Stacy, 28, confesses that her fingers (of course not yours) can get the woman incredibly wet. But, not in the way you’re thinking.
“Men always ignore a woman’s fingers, ” she says. If she’s lucky, a guy will stroke or caress her upper arms for a little bit, and then quickly move on.
Men always ignore a woman's fingers, - Stacy Click To Tweet
Yet, almost no one, except for an older gentleman she briefly dated, ever looked at her fingers let alone kissed them.
Just like Stacy, most women complain about how often their fingers get ignored.
“Sometimes, when I would be driving and my ex-lover was sitting in the passenger’s seat, he would take my hand and begin to gently kiss of my fingers.
It would send shivers through my body. And, I would find myself getting wet very easily. We even had to pull over once, so he could finish the job. ”
Here’s how it’s done…
The next time you’re about to have sex with her, take her hand in yours. And begin to kiss the backs of her fingers, with slow, soft, kisses.
Keep it dry, you don’t want much (or any) saliva at this point. Open your lips slightly and gently run them across her index finger, as if you were licking an envelope – but without using any tongue.
Give her knuckles some attention too. Plus especially deal with the webbed areas where her fingertips meet each other. You may use a little bit of tongue here, just to get into the grooves.
Then change her hand around. Plus kiss the fronts of her fingers as well as her palm. Avoid rush any of this. Spend some time with it.
A person could even gently mouthful the fleshy part of her palm, slightly below the girl thumb.
Then, kiss the girl wrist using quick, brief pecks. Then, kiss once more as you softly push down with the tip of your tongue.
In case she’s like most women, she is going to begin to get very wet down there. Plus, her breathing will get heavy, to match.
Came from here, you can continue to move up her equip. Kiss all of the girl.
You can even mouthful the area where the girl lower arm joins the upper arm. (The area exactly opposite to the girl elbow. )
But, again, be gentle. And, avoid leave marks.
Be a Vampire, make sure you do.
Long before the teenage vampire silliness came to be, women craved attention to another sensitive and sensual area of their body.
Long before the teenage vampire silliness came to be, women craved attention to another sensitive and sensual area of their body. Click To Tweet
This particular next highly-ignored area, based on many women, is the neck, of course.
“A guy could get me personally soaking wet just from kissing my neck, inch claims Jenny, 36. “But, they rarely spend more than 5 seconds there. It’s not that rare this, is it? inches
Yes, a woman’s neck of the guitar is far more of a killer spot than almost all of us realize. And, almost all of us move by it quickly, anywhere along the way when we’re moving from the woman upper lips to the woman lower ones.
Vampire displays from movies and textbooks aside, the neck is seen as a very vulnerable area and often protected, at least covered upwards by something.
And as such, it becomes a very sensual and highly-sensitive area to learn.
“If a guy were to method me from behind and commence kissing my neck, I actually swear I would burn in 2 seconds toned, ” claims Shawna, twenty four.
Here’s how it’s done…
Begin by kissing her lips – but no tongue yet. And no spit yet, either. Just damp your lips enough so it’s not dry.
Without having going too crazy with the lip-kissing, slowly move to her neck by using this maneuver: gently but strongly grab her hair from behind, and utilize it to gently tilt her head back so her neck is exposed. (The hair-grabbing and neck-exposing move may already get her aroused. )
Then, go in for the first bite, or taste, rather. Without needing your teeth.
Start kissing throughout her neck, front as well as both edges. But , move around gradually and gently. Cover the girl entire neck with kisses, and a few licks and nibbles here and there.
You may also let your nose and cheeks clean across her neck area as you kiss and nibble.
Don’t get too crazy (read: too rough) right away. Let the girl tell or signal you. Most working women avoid want their necks to be marked up at all. So , be mild… unless she tells you to bite harder.
Providing attention to a female’s neck is more about being sensual than being erotic. And for this very reason, this often-ignored (or quickly passed) area can create some serious heat for her – in all the right areas.
Providing attention to a female's neck is more about being sensual than being erotic. Click To Tweet
Naturally , you can try Shawna’s favorite move by going behind the woman now, and doing another “grab hair, tilt neck” move and play the vampire for a second.
You can even take her curly hair up and kiss the back of her neck of the guitar, and even blow on the area right after getting it. The hot air from your mouth hitting the slightly wet area on her neck (left by your kisses) sends the right kind of shivers down her spine.
An individual can even take things up another notch by whispering into her ear canal… with a little unclean talk… and telling the girl what you are do to her later.
And, if that’s too much so that you can handle right now, avoid force yourself into performing it or it could spring back. Instead, just whisper into her ear and let her understand how great the girl smells, how much the girl turns you on, how beautiful she looks, and so on.
Be Gentle and Tough… But Mild
As handled on in the earlier section, softly but firmly grabbing the girl hair can get the girl going could you do anything else.
Why? Due to the fact, women have an natural desire – and a strong reaction – to being “taken” by a strong, confident man.
This may go back to the cavemen days, we don’t know. The things we do know, according to women on their own, is that they like a man to make her feel weak – in the bedroom – particularly when she is better or larger than you (physically or even social standing wise. )
The popular words and phrases such as “take me, ” “ravish me, ” and “sweep me off my feet” are all signs pointing to her wanting to feel like, well, a woman… while the man takes control.
It goes without saying that being rough has nothing to do with hurting her physically in any way.
However, being a little rough with her (without hurting her or causing serious pain) is a turn on for most women.
Just be sure to turn her on in other ways first. Her threshold for pain can increase when she is aroused (and even fast and hard penetration can occasionally be a turn on if she’s already aroused. )
You already know about the gentle but firm hair-pulling.
There are lots of other ways to do it… besides the usual spanking and biting…
If you already know that you can lift her up easily, you could grab her while you’re kissing her and guide her to wrap her legs around your waist. Then, walk up to the couch or bed where you will continue.
Or, you could even stay in the “her legs wrapped around you” and lean her against an empty (and safe/smooth) wall as you continue kissing and fondling.
From a sitting position, pushing her down (slowly) towards the bed, with your forearm across her chest as you kiss her on the lips can be a huge turn on.
If she’s laying on her back, you can grab her legs, just below (and under) her knees and pull the girl towards you before you enter her.
A great way to bring this about is to change between being a little rough/aggressive and then being delicate and gentle.
A great way to bring this about is to change between being a little rough/aggressive and then being delicate and gentle. Click To Tweet
Switching around in this manner will also keep her on her feet, and she won’t expect what’s coming next (which is usually a good – and rare – thing for women, during sex. )
Become an Ass Man
Women love it when you give her butt some attention, including women who particularly think their butts are sexy.
But, again, it’s not the type of attention you could be thinking of.
Getting her butt during sexual intercourse can be a change on for a lot of women. Yet, you can provide her bottom some attention even before you get to the penetration stage.
Have the girl lay on her belly, and learn to kiss the back of her throat. Then, slowly move your kisses down her backbone till you get to her butt.
You can bite and nibble on her ass gently. Rub/massage it, and even spank it simply a little. (She may or may well not be into spanking, techniques very little of that at this point. )
In case she’s on top of you, you can get all of her butt face with each of your hands – and draw them apart, while the girl straddles you.
You can even give her butt some attention out of bed. Grab it or slap it playfully – but only when no one can see you do it. (Done secretly, it can be a turn on. But done in public and you may just embarrass her or make her feel self-conscious. )
If you do happen to be in public, you could brush your palm against the side of her outer thigh, and give her the look that tells her you would much rather be grabbing her ass.
If you’ve watched Pulp Fiction, you may already have an idea of just how serious (and sensuous) a woman’s feet can be.
A woman also carries a lot of tension and stress in her feet, especially if she has to stand all day or walk in heels.
So, give it lots of attention.
“A guy can easily get into my pants if he knows how to touch my feet, ” says Rekha, 24
A guy can easily get into my pants if he knows how to touch my feet - Rekha, 24 Click To Tweet
As you work your way down her body, from her face and lips, don’t set up camp between her legs.
Surprise her, and give that area just a little attention, then keep moving lower.
Kiss and lick her inner thighs, and especially the back of her knees. Gently bite her calf muscles, as well as her Achilles tendon.
Then, give her feet a nice massage (one at a time, obviously. )
Start with an overall massage. Then squeeze her toes together – gently. Massage her Achilles tendon area and her heel.
Dig / push in and slide your thumb prints across the sole of her foot, as if you’re squeezing a tube of toothpaste. You should be careful not to pick up the most notable of her foot way too hard with the relax of your fingers.
The proper kind of attention directed at her feet can switch a female on very much.
But, don’t just give her feet attention during foreplay and/or prior to having sex.
You can make her very happy by doing this exterior of the bedroom too, particularly when you don’t look like doing it just to get her shed the woman pants.
And, should you do not get to enjoy some hot sex immediately after you give her a amaze foot massage as long as you’re sitting down on the couch, you can be certain that the lady will pay you again in some delightful way the next time that you simply do have sex.
That, young padowan, is the ultimate lesson through the day… turn the woman on even when she’s out of bed, and she will reward you in yummy and juicy ways, for giving her pleasure when you didn’t really have to.